Hi Guys,

Hope you’re all well.

I’m copying across the blog I wrote in February of this year and have just amended it slightly, or included some new things that I wanted you all to know about. Most of the content is consistent and doesn’t really change, so it makes sense to do it this way.

Also, I know it’s important for my clients to see new date-driven data and that I’m still active. The plan is also at some point this year for a brand-new website and a fresh feel, as this one now has had its day, and has been live since 2009!

New Soft Kinks Room. 👅

As you can probably see from my previous blog, I’ve had a wonderful new soft kinks room specially designed for me, which is in addition to my usual massage studio too. Services can include an on-all-fours kink bench, restraining cross rack, glory hole, rim chair, various penetrative toys, fxxxing and oral stimulation machines, spanking equipment, large comfy bed/sofa, sterilising towel heater, tranquil mood lighting and music, all sorts.

It’s been wonderfully all put together and sensually decorated for me, so if you’re into something a little more naughty and kinky, let me know.
This room is more designed for clients that enjoy a much more heightened sexual experience.

Please note as mentioned before though I do not offer penile penetration services in either of my therapy rooms.

MILKING MASSAGE TABLE & STUDIO

I offer qualified and highly experienced naked, clothed, or partly clothed male body massages in a state-of-the-art, clean, and hygienic professional studio with nice dimmed mood lighting, peaceful surrounds, heated sterilised towels and oils, and nice relaxing spa music playing.

My massage studios are all very relaxed and chilled. The temperature is always maintained to ensure good warmth and complete privacy. Please let me know though if you prefer to be draped with towels or naked.

I have a 12” in diameter, very comfortable, cushioned milking/glory hole massage table for client relaxation and intense stimulating pleasure.

This is a unique, tailor-made erotic massage table that not many other therapists will have and is highly erotically sensual and very popular.

The massage table can also be reassembled to offer a more clinical style of massage, with the hole area being re-cushioned if requested.

SENSUAL EROTIC/TANTRIC MASSAGE.

For the sensual erotic/tantric massage, clients are placed initially lying on their front on the massage table. I start the massage working your back and glutes and then move down the back of legs and soles of feet. Clients are then asked to turn over, where I start massaging the front of the body and then start working into the Chakra Dantian energy centres on the forehead, chest, abdomen, and groin areas, leading into tantric/erotic massaging.

Tantric massage is a meditative, full-body sensory experience rooted in ancient Tantric spirituality. It focuses on breathwork and mindful touch to awaken the body’s natural energy, relieve emotional blocks, and connect physical intimacy with spiritual awareness.

Instead of focusing purely on standard goals like muscle relief or climax, the goal is to harness sexual/arousal energy and channel it throughout the entire body to achieve relaxation and higher states of consciousness.

My massages can be either full body, deep/soft tissue, sensual, erotic, with hand and various different oral tantric techniques and positions, prostate massage, pre- and post-cum edging control, and some body-to-body work working into all the erogenous zones/meridian lines, chakras, and delivering you to a euphoric completion(s). For the erotic style of massage, clients are placed into various different positions to ensure total satisfaction. Please note my services can be very orally focused, as well as hand/forearm and some body-to-body contact too.

As most clients will understand, I have to be able to enjoy it too and connect with you also, in order to give you the desired sensual result. I’m very much a skin-to-skin kind of guy and getting that connection. This is how my services work and why I’ve been so successful for many years. I really work hard with my clients on all levels.

PROSTATE MASSAGE

The prostate massage I do is done either with the client on all fours, on their side with leg(s) raised or up on their back with their legs raised up over their body.

A well-lubricated finger(s) or prostate massage machine is inserted deep into the anal region to stimulate the prostate gland with pressing, vibrating, flicking, and circular movements to milk and stimulate the prostate gland. Intense insertion all the way in and all the way out is done too to provide a euphoric sense of well-being and enhance strong, powerful prostate stimulative pulses and intense orgasms.

Oral stimulation can be applied too around and deep into the anal region and on the penis, balls, and perineum areas too to enhance the client’s erotic enjoyment and orgasm(s).

For the prostate massage, it is advisable to have abstained from any sexual activity for at least three days prior to the treatment as this will enhance your orgasm(s).

As this is a very intimate bodily service, clients are encouraged to ensure all areas inside and out of the anal region are cleared and have been super cleansed. I can offer a full douching and cleansing service with an advanced butt and groin scrub exfoliation too.

SPORTS MASSAGE & CUPPING THERAPY

I also offer strong deep tissue sports massage. I am level 5 degree qualified/pro athlete including injury, remedial and maintenance, ROM testing and rehabilitation, or Swedish soft tissue relaxation body massage. This is ideal for the regular gym-goer or sports person. I can also combine a sports massage with some sensual, tantric massage too.

For deeper tissue body massage, particularly sports massage, this can have a very powerful effect on the central nervous system, as it affects all the nerves around the body, so please ensure you have eaten on the day of your appointment and kept well hydrated. Due to this effect and time constraints, also, my sports massage focuses only on two or three muscle groups maximum.

I’m also offering now massage suction cupping therapy, as well as sports taping and strapping for injuries.

Massage cup therapy, also called cupping therapy, is a practice where special cups are placed on the skin to create suction. This suction is thought to improve blood flow, reduce muscle tension, and promote healing. The cups can be left in place or moved across the skin, and the therapy often leaves temporary circular marks. It is commonly used for muscle aches, stiffness, and relaxation.

WHY SHOULD I CHOOSE MASSAGE?

Massage done properly has a positive effect on nearly all bodily systems, including psychological ones. In sports massage, it aids bodily recovery and assists with injury and rehabilitation. Swedish massage is a nice, soft tissue massage and more soothing, relaxing massage that helps you unwind and is the origin of most massages.

Therapists that have trained initially in Swedish massage are usually the better therapists I find, as it gives them such a better foundation and grounding to overall body massage and general holistic therapy and the understanding of the human body.

In tantric massage, we learn that men breathe from their groins, to their minds, and then to their hearts, whereas women are polar opposites.

Men can need to reproduce sometimes up to three or four times a day, whereas with women, it can be much more periodic. If these feelings are not exercised or fulfilled regularly, it can cause all sorts of mental health issues, frustration, depression, excessive porn watching, as well as relationship troubles.

The chakras, meridian lines, and bodily energy centres can also all become blocked. I see so many doctors in my line of work, and I’m told even andrologists now are recommending it!

Coming to see someone like me is maybe like going to see a doctor or a sexual therapist just to have these feelings exercised and released in a safe, reliable, secure, and professional environment where you can return back too as and when your need arises.
Like I say, I don’t contact anyone; you contact me only.

Honestly, guys, it’s much better to do it this way in a more tactile, real, and professional environment than on unsafe and unreliable, strings-attached apps or just watching brain-rotting, dopamine-depleting porn. Give yourself the real treat and experience; don’t just fantasise or watch others; it’s SO much better for you and your sexual health too! Don’t let everyone else have all the fun; get some of it too!

CLIENT BIO INFO AND SUITABILITY

Just so I know who to expect and to verify age, I do ask for all clients to provide a full bio-profile description of themselves, their health, and age also.
An exchange of a picture too, if okay as well, but not essential. Please note I will only send images when I have received one firstly and have had verification of age.

My services are suited for consenting adults strictly aged 18-45 years old only (upper age flexible) and who are in “reasonably” fit, good shape, bodily weight, and good health and fitness.

All my clients are treated with the utmost respect, care, and professionalism, and I know how important this is to my clients. I do expect the same in return. It’s very important to me to make sure I have the right clients and that I feel comfortable with that person coming to my house.
I want to enjoy it with you too and to be able to raise the necessary energy for the session.

If you’re happy to exchange pics too via WhatsApp or Telegram, that would be great. I’m happy to send images in return. This is a much quicker way to get an appointment with me!

My services are ideal for sportspeople and those engaged in regular gym activity, as well as straight, bi, and bi-curious men looking to explore new massage or soft kink ventures.
Nearly all of my clients are straight or bi/bi-curious guys.

Please note, due to health and safety and the purposes of the weight tolerance of my massage table, I will not be able to massage any clients that are too overweight. Please let me know though if you’re quite tall and your weight is in proportion to your bodily mass, or you’re a bodybuilder, etc., as an exclusion to this weight tolerance can be made.

For new clients, or those I have not seen for a while, I do need to do a quick verbal health consultation and bodily assessment. Please let me know of any health issues prior to your treatment.

Whilst I don’t mind moderate and mild use of poppers or weed, I will not offer any services to clients under the influence of drink or recreational drugs.
It’s just not conducive to my set up and training. We work with natural energies in my studios, not chemically induced ones.

You must confirm you are over the age of 18 years to contact me or have any information or images sent to you with regards to my services. 🔞

My services are biological male-to-male only and discreet and strictly confidential. This is a very discreet and confidential service and I will not contact any client unless you have asked me specifically to do so.

We all have our own private lives, but I know here and there we just need a little private time and escapism from this busy, stressful world, and this is what my services provide. I am well respected for my discretion and confidentiality.

CLIENT COMMUNICATION ✅

Please can I ask that all communication sent to me is very clear, concise and appointment-led only and that I understand your needs, and what you’re looking for and when. There’s nothing more frustrating for me as a therapist when this doesn’t happen and there’s “table tennis texting”, guys self-gratifying, fantasising, too nervous etc., it’s just not me guys sorry I’m trying to run a busy professional business where you come to my studios and have all that fun.

Please note I do not answer or take bookings from withheld numbers. All nuisance messages, calls, and appointment abusers are blocked.

If there’s message threads history of poor contact also, then I’m unlikely to respond to any further contact. I just want to keep this real for everyone. 😃

For all my valued customers that have, when contacting me, been strictly enquiry-led, paid their deposits, not over-text me, turned up on time for an appointment, and really enjoyed their session too, I put a green tick on their number. This client then will get priority over others. If clients are treating me with a high level of respect like I do them, they should be acknowledged and rewarded more for doing this. ✅

It’s important for me also to have the right customers and to continue to build up the right business and in the right direction. I honestly don’t just do this job for money, I do it for my own vocation and enjoyment too.

WhatsApp is my preferred method of communication.

Calls can be difficult to take at times, so it’s always best to drop me a WhatsApp first and then I’ll call you straight back. I’m usually very quick at returning calls. 📞📱

LOCATION & FACILITIES

I offer rainforest shower facilities, soaps, and fresh, clean towels, and there’s accessible private/off-street parking available too. I’m Milton Keynes-based and offer an in-call service only.

I live alone and provide very plush, detached private accommodation in a respectful neighbourhood. As good hygiene is essential for body massage and soft kinks, I would ask that all clients have thoroughly showered all intimate areas at least one hour before their massage. Please rinse off all soaps being used too. I can also provide a deep cleansing shower service too before the massage.

My studios and detached house are extremely clean. I could not be more sterile and cleanly if I tried. Coming from a medical background and a very strict housekeeping upbringing, I take my cleanliness, health, and wellness very seriously!

ABOUT ME.

I am 45 years of age, 6’2”, slim, athletic, smooth, and about 78kg. I am degree-level qualified and highly experienced in massage, client care, and overall holistic well-being. I also lead a very active lifestyle with two dogs and keep myself fit at the gym three times a week.

I do not, and cannot offer these services full-time as I’m quite preoccupied with other ventures including property investment and management, external sports massage/physiotherapy, socialising, etc.

I won’t lie, the job also can really take it out of you psychologically at times, especially with some of the mainstream advertising I do and dealing in essence with the “mechanics of nature”, so I just like to tap in and tap out of it, and do it when I can.
I was always taught to only massage when you’re in a good, relaxed place, as that feel-good factor is then generated back to your clients.

I have a very large customer base now, which I’ve worked hard to maintain over nearly 20 years of massaging. I pride myself on being able to offer a 1st class, highly qualified, and experienced discreet male massage and soft kinks service.

WORKING HOURS. 🕖

I work most days (including weekends and holiday periods) from 7 a.m. in the morning to about 11 p.m. at night. These working hours can vary depending on workload, other commitments, and my energy levels.

I’m going to be taking some time away both here in the UK and abroad this year just to regenerate and recharge my batteries.

MAKING A BOOKING/PAYMENT

For any advanced appointments, I do ask for a 50% non-refundable cancellation deposit just to secure the booking. This gives both the client and me reassurance of the booking.

Please note this deposit is not usually required for more immediate appointments or appointments made within an hour or so of making the enquiry. I usually play it by ear. If you’re a regular and trusted green-ticked client, a deposit is not usually needed. ✅

Time-wise, my services can range from 30 minutes, 1 hour to 1.5 hours or even 2 hours, or I can also offer a more express massage for just 15 minutes. Prices for these can be found @ https://premiermalemassage.co.uk/price-list/

Please note my prices are set and I do not offer any student discounts or free services, unless I’m using guys for modelling purposes. If you’re interested in modelling work please do contact me, as I’m always looking for guys for various things.

As payment, I can take cash, PayPal, bank transfer, or “tap to pay” payments. (“Tap to pay” or PayPal payments incur an extra transaction fee per transaction).

In the unlikely event I have to cancel the appointment, these deposited monies will be refunded back to the payer in full.

If you’d like to make a massage or soft kinks appointment, please don’t hesitate to contact me.

Please ensure all enquiries are strictly appointment-led only and are genuine and respectful in their nature. Let’s leave all the fun side for your appointment and in the studios only. 😃

REVIEWS

Please feel free to read reviews left by many of my other satisfied clients I’ve massaged over the years. @ https://premiermalemassage.co.uk/massage-reviews/

TERMS OF SERVICE

Please note what I’ve detailed above are strictly my boundaries of service that I can provide my clients. I do not offer anal penile penetration services.

The above information I have written should hopefully give you everything you need to know about my services and to be able to make an appointment, but if you have any further questions that have not been answered above, please don’t hesitate to ask.

Before contacting me though, please can I ask you read through and have checked my services are suitable for you and that you’re happy to make an appointment.

I look forward to hearing from you.
Ben 😃

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