Gay Male Massage & Soft Kinks
Just wanted to drop a new blog in to wish you all firstly a Happy New Year and go through some of my new services, but also I wanted to update you all on various other bits and pieces too.
New Soft Kinks Room.👅
As you can probably see from my previous blog, I’ve had a wonderful new soft kinks room specially designed for me, which is in addition to my usual massage studio too. Services can include an on-all-fours kink bench, glory hole, rim chair, various toys, a fxxxing machine, all sorts. It’s been wonderfully all put together and sensually decorated for me, so if you’re into something a little more kinky, let me know.
Milking Massage Studio.
I offer qualified and highly experienced naked, clothed, or partly clothed male body massages in a state-of-the-art, clean, and hygienic professional studio with nice dimmed mood lighting, peaceful surrounds, heated towels and oils, and nice relaxing spa music playing.
My massage studios are all very relaxed and chilled. The temperature is always maintained to ensure good warmth and complete privacy. Please let me know though if you prefer to be draped with towels or naked.
I have a 12” in diameter, very comfortable, cushioned milking/glory hole massage table for client relaxation and intense stimulating pleasure.
This is a unique, tailor-made erotic massage table that not many other therapists will have and is highly erotically sensual and very popular.
The massage table can also be reassembled to offer a more clinical style of massage with the hole area being re-cushioned if requested.
Sensual Erotic Massage.
For the sensual erotic/tantric massage, clients are placed initially lying on their front on the massage table. I start the massage working your back and glutes and then move down the back of legs and soles of feet. Clients are then asked to turn over where I start massaging the front of the body and then start working into the groin area.
My massages can be either full body, deep tissue, sensual, erotic, with hand and various different oral tantric techniques and positions, prostate massage, pre and post-cum edging control, and some body-to-body work working into all the erogenous zones/meridian lines, chakras, and delivering you to a euphoric completion(s). For the erotic style of massage, clients are placed into various different positions to ensure total satisfaction.
Prostate Massage.
The prostate massage I do is done either with the client on all fours, on their side with leg(s) raised or up on their back with their legs raised up over their body.
A well-lubricated finger(s) or prostate massage machine is inserted deep into the anal region to stimulate the prostate gland with pressing, vibrating, flicking, and circular movements to milk and stimulate the prostate gland. Intense insertion all the way in and all the way out is done too to provide a euphoric sense of well-being and enhance strong, powerful prostate stimulative pulses & intense orgasms(s).
Oral stimulation can be applied too around and deep into the anal region and on the penis, balls, and perineum areas too to enhance the client’s erotic enjoyment & orgasm(s).
For the prostate massage, it is advisable to have abstained from any sexual activity for at least three days prior to the treatment as this will enhance your orgasm(s).
As this is a very intimate bodily service, clients are encouraged to ensure all areas inside and out of the anal region are cleared and have been super cleansed. I can offer a full douching and cleansing service with an advanced butt and groin scrub exfoliation too.
Advanced Sports Massage.
I also offer strong deep tissue sports massage. I am level 5 degree qualified/pro athlete including injury, remedial & maintenance, ROM testing & rehabilitation, or Swedish soft tissue relaxation body massage. This is ideal for the regular gym-goer or sports person. I can also combine a sports massage with some sensual, tantric massage too.
For deeper tissue body massage, particularly sports massage, this can have a very powerful effect on the central nervous system, so please ensure you have eaten on the day of your appointment and kept well hydrated. Due to this effect and time constraints, also, my sports massage focuses only on two or three muscle groups maximum.
Why Should I Choose A Massage?
Massage done properly has a positive effect on nearly all bodily systems, including psychological. In sports massage it aids bodily recovery and assists with injury, relaxation and recovery. Swedish massage is a nice soothing and relaxing massage that helps you unwind and is the origin of most massages.
In tantric massage we learn that men breathe from their groins, to their minds and then to their hearts, whereas women are polar opposites.
Men need to reproduce sometimes up to 3-4 times a day whereas with women it can be much more periodic.
If these feelings are not exercised, or fulfilled regularly it can cause all sort of mental health issues, as well as relationship troubles.
Chakras of bodily bio-electric energy can also become blocked. Even Andrologists are now recommending it!
Coming to see someone like me is maybe like going to see a Doctor, or a therapist to have these feelings exercised and released in a safe, secure and professional environment where you can return back too as and when it’s needed. Like I say, I don’t contact anyone, you contact me only.
Client Bio Info And Suitability
Just so I know who to expect and to verify age, I do ask for all clients to provide a full bio-profile description of themselves, their health, and age also.
An exchange of a picture too, if okay as well, but not essential. Please note I will only send images when I have received one firstly and have had verification of age.
My services are suited for consenting adults strictly aged 18-45 years old only (upper age thereabouts) and who are in “reasonably” fit shape, bodily weight, and good health and fitness.
All my clients are treated with the utmost respect, care and professionalism, and I know how important this is to my clients. I do expect the same in return. It’s very important to me to make sure I have the right clients and that I feel comfortable with that person coming to my house.
I want to enjoy it with you too, and to be able to raise the necessary energy for the session.
If you’re happy to exchange pics too via WhatsApp or Telegram that would be great. I’m happy to send images in return. This is a much quicker way to get an appointment with me!
My services are ideal for sportspeople and those engaged in regular gym activity, as well as straight, bi & bi curious men looking to explore new massage or soft kink ventures.
Please note, due to health & safety and the purposes of the weight tolerance of my massage table, I will not be able to massage any clients that are too overweight. Usually, 95kg(ish) or less is preferred. Please let me know though if you’re quite tall and your weight is in proportion, or a bodybuilder etc, as an exclusion to this weight tolerance can be made.
For new clients, or those i have not seen for a while, I do need to do a quick verbal health consultation.
I will not offer any services to clients under the influence of drink or recreational drugs.
You must confirm you are over the age of 18 years to contact me or have any information or images sent to you with regards to my services. 🔞
My services are biological male-to-male only and discreet and strictly confidential. This is a very discreet and confidential service and I will not contact any client unless you have asked me specifically to do so.
We all have our own private lives, but I know here and there we just need a little private time and escapism from this busy, stressful world, and this is what my services provide. I am well respected for my discretion and confidentiality.
Client Communication.
Please can I ask that all communication sent to me is very clear, concise and appointment lead only and that I understand your needs, and what you’re looking for and when. There’s nothing more frustrating for me as a therapist when this doesn’t happen and there’s “table tennis texting”, guys self gratifying, fantasising etc, it’s just not me guys sorry I’m trying run a busy professional business where you come to my studios and have all that fun.
Please note I do not answer or take bookings from withheld numbers.
All nuisance messages and calls etc are blocked.🚫
If there’s message threads history of poor contact, or bogus appts etc then I’m unlikely to respond to any further contact. I want to keep this real for everyone. 😃
WhatsApp is my preferred method of communication.
Calls can be difficult to take at times, so it’s always best to drop me a message first and then I’ll call you straight back. I’m usually very quick at returning calls. 📞📱
Location & Facilities.
I offer rainforest shower facilities, soaps, and fresh, clean towels, and there’s accessible private/off-street parking available too. I’m Milton Keynes-based and offer an in-call service only.
I live alone and provide very plush, detached private accommodation in a respectful neighbourhood. As good hygiene is essential for body massage and soft kinks, I would ask that all clients have thoroughly showered all intimate areas at least one hour before their massage. Please rinse off all soaps being used too. I can also provide a deep cleansing shower service too before the massage.
About Me.
I am 45 years of age, 6’2”, slim, athletic, smooth, and about 78kg. I am degree-level qualified and highly experienced in massage, client care, and overall holistic well-being. I also lead a very active lifestyle and keep myself fit. I’m from a medical background too.
I have a very large customer base now, which I’ve worked hard to maintain over nearly 20 years of massaging.
I pride myself on being able to offer a 1st class, highly qualified, and experienced discreet male massage and soft kinks service.
Working Hours.
I work most days (including weekends and holiday periods) from 7 a.m. in the morning to about 11 p.m. at night. These working hours can vary depending on workload, other commitments and energy levels.
Making A Booking Payment.
For any advanced appointments, I do ask for a 50% non-refundable cancellation deposit just to secure the booking. This gives both the client and me reassurance of the booking.
Please note this deposit is not usually required for more immediate appointments or appointments made within an hour or so of making the enquiry. I usually play it by ear. If you’re a regular and trusted client a deposit is not usually needed.
Time-wise, my services can range from 30 minutes, 1 hour to 1.5 hours or even 2 hours, or I can also offer a more express massage for just 15 minutes. Prices for these can be found @ https://premiermalemassage.co.uk/price-list/
Please note my prices are set and I do not offer any discounts.
As payment, I can take cash, PayPal, bank transfer, or “tap to pay” payments. (“Tap to pay” or PayPal payments incur an extra transaction fee per transaction).
In the unlikely event I have to cancel the appointment, these deposited monies will be refunded back to the payer in full.
If you’d like to make a massage or soft kinks appointment, please don’t hesitate to contact me. Please ensure all enquiries are strictly appointment-led only and are genuine and respectful in their nature. Let’s leave all the fun side for your appointment and in the studios only. 😃
Reviews.
Please feel free to read reviews left by many of my other satisfied clients I’ve massaged over the years.
@ https://premiermalemassage.co.uk/massage-reviews/
Terms of service.
Please note what I’ve detailed above are strictly my boundaries of service that I can provide my clients.
I do not offer anal penile penetration services.
The above information I have written should hopefully give you everything you need to know about my services and to be able to make an appointment, but if you have any further questions that have not been answered above, please don’t hesitate to ask.
Before contacting me though please can I ask you read through and have checked my services are suitable for you and that you’re happy to make an appointment.
I look forward to hearing from you.
Ben 😃
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